I’ve been avoiding calls and texts for two months. Such avoidance generally means I’m no longer interested.
I went to play dominos and scum at another apartment tonight.
The object of my evasion happened to walk in.
He told me to call him sometime, that he left a few messages, but I didn’t return his calls.
Well, duh. Of course I didn’t.
He didn’t ask how long I’ve been back.
But he did see me being social.
Which, I’m usually not.
Perhaps my lack of communication makes me a hypocrite.
Easily I could morph into my mother or dad.
So, am I avoiding the outright lie, or am I abandoning him? Is it even the same thing?
Thing is, I’ve made no promises. No commitments.
I just am not all that interested.
But I’m prepared to be upfront about it.
I’ll have to give him a call.
He can take it.